Oh yea, but usually there is a word or two that make it into the description that turn you away quickly. The problem is that he is answering it to YOU and that might skew his reply. Usually I am the bumbling idiot at the table, but it looks like I can at least get some direction by asking these questions! I used to think that I would never need to prepare for a date with something like this, but after a few weird silent moments recently, I am starting to think reviewing a list like this might not be a bad idea! I like to ask the pet-peeve question right away.
That way, I am aware of what not to do to get under his skin. I have used this as my go-to question, but it has backfired on me more than one time. The guy would normally reply with the answer, but once in a while, there is a guy or two that will get defensive and weird about it. Ohhh, I have a crush on a guy that works at Starbucks and I have been going there every day because of it: I am going to toss a few of these at him when I get the chance to see what his reaction might be. I have been told that my sense of humor is why guys like me, so that second list of questions is perfect for me!
These all seem like good first date questions. If I have been with someone for a year or more, I would expect to know all the answers to these. Getting in trouble with the law is a great question, but it might be one that is better not asked right away. I always have a hard time getting the conversation going with a guy.
Do you really think these would help me with that problem? Thank you for posting this list. It will give me something to think about for my date coming up! It usually starts an interesting conversation. He is so sad.
Maybe if I asked the questions through a video game he might pay attention. Laughter is a great way to calm the both of you down during an awkward date.
I like this list, it gives me great ideas for the next time. I just have to make sure that I am not going to talk the entire time: This is a real good list for those that are going on a first date. Sometimes, usually happens to me, there is a weird silence and these are good ice breakers! Helper September 3, , 7: Lily December 11, , Big Shaq December 8, , 4: Fillintheblank December 6, , 9: Charity August 1, , Jaelie July 23, , Sierra Owens December 3, , Im 13 and my bf is 15 and everyone tells us how cute we are so I say take the chance.
Rachele May 19, , Arieyanah Ross April 1, , 7: Leisha March 20, , Danielle George September 12, , 9: Yah yah March 9, , Star May 17, , 9: Mia Vickerman February 28, , Selena May 15, , 1: Kawsar ahmed February 25, , Sadia shoukat February 13, , 4: Divya January 22, , Arabella Kriedeman January 5, , Wastelxndsx January 16, , Bob November 18, , 9: Australian girl November 16, , 7: Yama August 15, , 9: Zara July 28, , 8: LN June 2, , Lydia May 30, , A guy April 16, , 1: Dont ask these questions For real dont.
Ershaille November 12, , 1: Karen Sutton January 18, , 2: In a situation like a first date, how many of these should you go with?
Vivian Irvin January 15, , 8: Most of the men that I meet do not care about learning more about me. Shante maxwell June 28, , Michele Lasalle January 14, , 9: Tammy Arney January 13, , Donna Gass January 18, , 2: I like current events too, so that would be a good thing to have in common. Elfriede Hill January 12, , 5: I have been around guys that the real defensive over stuff like this. Phylis Quach January 12, , 5: Mindi Scott January 14, , 9: Gladys Frye January 11, , 9: Mary Gee January 8, , 1: Frances Griffin January 7, , Maria Carroll January 6, , 2: Deborah Lininger January 8, , 1: Sharon Miller January 5, , 9: You really want to see a guy freak out, ask him is he has a 5-year plan!
Susie Alexander January 4, , 9: Shala Gruber January 7, , Carole Wiley January 1, , I wonder what my husband would say if I asked him about marrying a fictional character. Bertha Finch January 5, , Esther Lankford December 31, , 8: Diane Franklin December 30, , 9: The cover and theme for my newest book was inspired by the concept of kintsugi.
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Looking for questions to ask a guy? These questions should do the trick. By encouraging people to tell stories about themselves, you not only learn about their history but also about them from the way they talk about their lives. These relationship questions to ask a guy you just met like are designed to spark the imagination of the person and drift off into speculation.
There aren't really any right or wrong answers; again, the way these questions are answered tell you more about a person than the answers themselves and are great questions to ask when online dating, too. What's the biggest goal you're working on now? What do you think is the biggest problem in the world today?
Ask for elaboration when appropriate and if your guy is particularly brief when answering a question, you may want to ask some follow-up questions to get more details. This is a great list. Unless you've both decided to have a formal session of getting to know each other by asking any questions that have been on your mind, keep things low-key. Shala Gruber January 7, , Frances Griffin January 7, ,
What do you think people should do about it? If you could have lunch with anyone in the world, living or dead, who would you want to meet?
Some of these 21 questions to ask a boy range from the simple emotional to the blatantly sexual. Not all will be appropriate, but if you are planning to be sexually intimate, they probably are. What do I need to know about your sex life? If you wanted to kiss me, where would you take me to make it perfect? Tell me what you think is the sexiest thing about yourself bonus question: These questions should elicit more questions from you and shouldn't merely be a quick checklist of questions.